Why We Get Trapped and How We Get Out
by Amanda Ripley
Publisher: Simon and Schuster
Recommended by: Cindi, Bob & Linda
When we are baffled by the insanity of the “other side”—in our politics, at work, or at home—it’s because we aren’t seeing how the conflict itself has taken over. That’s what “high conflict” does. It’s the invisible hand of our time. And it’s different from the useful friction of “healthy conflict”. That’s good conflict, and it’s a necessary force that pushes us to be better people.